Recently, the First Central Primary School in Jing'an District, the 80th anniversary celebration ceremony, representatives of parents who received a special gift - a collective of teachers prepared by the university tutor "Little Red Book." According to the school of 1,000 students in the household survey, eight families with more than spoiled children, fallen in love. Faced with a series tutor errors, prepared by the teachers, "Little Red Book" to promote family education to parents of new ideas. Current Version tutor part book excerpt, see tutor "Little Red Book" is hiding what "secret"? Child moves "slowly" how to do? 【Case】 Mimi was young, my parents found her movements were slow. The idea is that she is still small, there may be some things that will not do so, as long as she was a slow movement, we take the initiative to help her complete. Mimi read in first grade now, has been with the school homework home, linger late into the night, our parents hurry, but Mimi angry she refused to complete the operation. 】 【Discussion Child moves "slowly" to form a variety of reasons, some children are naturally slow, no matter under what circumstances, do are slow, these children are relatively quiet and slow type. Some children lack the concept of time, there is no sense of urgency, so that the children do not know if the thing done as soon as possible there will be any better results, he just carried on past habits, he did not think they have what is not slow good. Some kids do things by emotions, like doing things quickly, do not like doing things slowly. Some parents in the six-year-old child, when it helped to do everything. Parents, children develop an alternative form of laziness. 【Recommendations If a child because there is no concept of time lead to slow, it is necessary to correct defects as early as possible children. 1, the children move slowly and can be changed through the game Parents and children can always play some small competitive games, such as finishing school bags, beds, bookcases and other finishing. 2, "tokens Law" Parents and children work together to design a complete schedule, write down the first time, and then record the actual completion time for the day, if there is progress than ever before to complete the job in the corresponding draw a smiley face next. 3, the combination of autonomy and counseling Parents and children about the first estimate, how long it takes to complete these operations within the prescribed time, let the children complete, the concept of time among children. 4, the speed of determination, feeling "I can fast" Record the number of units of time to write words, do a few road topics. Then, calculate at this rate, how long do all the work, the result would certainly surprise a child: I can so quickly complete ah! "Nagging" help kids grow up? 【Case】 Small strong fourth grade, my mother also took him to the school gate every day, and repeatedly exhorted, school should seriously listen to, read more books ... class ... home, his mother sat next to Xiao Qiang: "work hard, not writing scratchy! "," how did you get wrong! "... ... Mother nagging enthusiastically and children but in the faces and rolling his eyes, causing a new round of nagging mother. 】 【Discussion When children are doing homework, my mother once, twice, three times, repeating one thing to do the same on the accused, the children hear the ear, "grinding" out of calluses, will be tortured physically and mentally restless impatience, so easy for children to upset Italy learning disorder can not enter the normal state, but error-prone, and sometimes a hurry, there will be resistance to psychology and behavior. Because the child was repeatedly criticized, the mood may be difficult to calm, resulting in distraction. 【Recommendations Way of speaking and the content is appropriate, directly affect the education effect. 1 to true democracy to treat children Before a decision is one thing, you can first listen to the child's ideas, to dialogue and communication with the child often and encourage them to express their wishes. 2, give them confidence, usually to encourage, guide-based Parents have a basic trust of the child. Parents not to send their children to a hundred Jinjiao Men do not worry, because you suggest the opposite may be a hint. 3, told to have clear objectives Parents of the child's learning and living some management advice is necessary. However, make demands on the child, parents should try to use simple, children can understand the language of cause and effect things clear. 4, from another angle, another way If I have to once again criticize, do not simply repeat it to another angle, another way. In this way, the child will not feel the same mistakes, "grabbed hold", the tired psychology, reverse psychology will also diminish. 5, let the children suffer the consequences Children have the ability to deal with good things, so to solve his own, and their consequences. If you do not get up in time will be late, it is very clear that every student, he can not do, it will naturally be duly criticized. Parents do not have to constantly remind him every day, if he is always late, has been criticized, he will think of ways to solve this problem.

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